Have you ever wondered where I get my fantastic Family Home Evening topics every week? We have a simple chart that divides the responsibilities. Every family member rotates from lesson to treat / conducting to scripture and so on. I like this method for two reasons. One, it’s a lot less work for me. Two, and more important, it gives my children ownership in FHE and the experience of planning, preparing and executing their responsibility. When they were little, I’d help them plan their lesson (sometimes even help them find a topic). Now they usually do it on their own. I’m still making or helping with the treat half the time, and that’s OK because it’s good quality time with my children.
One downside is sometimes the lessons, activities or songs get a little repetitive (sometimes even the treats)! I pulled the bad mom card and banished a certain lesson because it felt like we were having the same lesson every week. I do like the “Hold to the Rod” activity as much as the next person, but after four or five times in a row I was in desperate need for a change.
One of my children chose the First Vision as a lesson. Although we had the lesson several months ago, it was a good review. And thanks to some awesome youth leaders, the lesson was well prepared; he even had cute little visual aides on a stick. I was again impressed how different parts of the same lesson stand out. This time we focused on scripture study, prayer and faith.
Our activity was one of our favorite games – What If?
I introduced our gratitude garland.
One of the kiddos volunteered to bear their testimony for double treats. You bribe your kids one time … but it was nice to hear their testimonies again. The double treat thing worked out because I made brownies and we had vanilla ice cream in the freezer!